Post by Snow Goddess on Jun 24, 2009 14:23:22 GMT -5
1.Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot.
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
3. When a guy likes you he will try and make himself seem impressive to you
"Listen to what he's saying". If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
4.Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and don't move your leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
5. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.
6.Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply will not tease you.
7.Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
8.Smile - a big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back to avoid blushing.
9.Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't? Maybe when they dare him in games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
10. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
11.Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with "ha ha, nice, [ name here ]" it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with "ha ha, nice." The second doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
12.Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
13.He'll flirt with other girls to get your attention- If a guy is really into you he will want to make you jealous. So, he will most likely flirt with other girls in front of you. It gives them a chance to see your reaction. It helps them know if you really do like them or not. But guys flirting with other girls in front of you doesn't always mean they like you. They actually might be into that girl. The way you can tell that they are trying to make you jealous is that they find little times when they're flirting with the other girl to look at you. His eyes will flick over and look at you. Another sign is that when you leave, he stops flirting with the other girl. I know that will be a harder one to pick up on, but you can have a friend look for you or something like that. You have to be sneaky sometimes to find out if a guy likes you. I know this is true because a guy who really liked me would flirt with other girls in front of me all the time, and then he asked me out. He told me that he did that to make me jealous. So guys have all these little tricks, because if they really do like you, they probably want to know if you like them too. =]
Notice these tell-tale signs:
If he wants to talk to you all the time,
If he was acting like you're his friend but stopped doing embarrassing things in front of you,
If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
If he treats you differently than others,
If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (when you touch him he might touch you back)
If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
If he tries to make you laugh,
If he tries to copy you,
If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?
If he goes out of his way to talk to you (if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you
If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around,
If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you,
If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time!
If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps/touches you, if he moves your chair or pulls your hair etc.
If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend does, he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!
Watch his body language! Whenever you are in a group of people with the one guy you think likes you, look at his shoulders - believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately turn to you to listen.
Watch his actions! If someone else is picking on you does he rush to defend you or get revenge on that person? Either he thinks of you as a great friend or he really likes you!
Where he goes! If you see him go some places that you usually go often and whenever you go there and he passes by or goes there that means he likes you. Or whenever you go you see him or go across him for no reason. And he will talk to you a lot in gym,lunch,music or many more!
Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. If he always wants to talk to you or just likes to hang around you.
If he starts a conversation, try to push it on. If he likes you, one thing may lead to another, and he will ask you out.
Take note, if your guy nods down to you,and or breaks eye contact, he sees you as a friend. If he nods up and keeps eye contact, he's trying to flirt.
If one of his friends keeps telling you stuff he said about you, like how hot you are, he probably likes you.
If he jokes around a lot with you and gives the cheeky little smirk.
Notice if he compliments you on a lot of things.
If he was always talking, teasing or even getting you mad, but, now he's not. He's probably shy, especially if you notice that he likes you.
If when your talking to someone and he jumps into the conversation and tries making fun of you or tries to make you laugh or smile.
When your in class or in an open area with alot of space, and he always finds some way of standing near you. And when he does it's very close, or it feels like it's in your personal space. Then he likes you.
If you're in class and the guy sits side ways in his desk, his knees pointing towards you, then he likes you. If he looks at you alot, or stares blankly at you, he likes you!
WHEW! HAHAHA!
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
3. When a guy likes you he will try and make himself seem impressive to you
"Listen to what he's saying". If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
4.Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and don't move your leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
5. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.
6.Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply will not tease you.
7.Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
8.Smile - a big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back to avoid blushing.
9.Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't? Maybe when they dare him in games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
10. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
11.Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with "ha ha, nice, [ name here ]" it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with "ha ha, nice." The second doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
12.Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
13.He'll flirt with other girls to get your attention- If a guy is really into you he will want to make you jealous. So, he will most likely flirt with other girls in front of you. It gives them a chance to see your reaction. It helps them know if you really do like them or not. But guys flirting with other girls in front of you doesn't always mean they like you. They actually might be into that girl. The way you can tell that they are trying to make you jealous is that they find little times when they're flirting with the other girl to look at you. His eyes will flick over and look at you. Another sign is that when you leave, he stops flirting with the other girl. I know that will be a harder one to pick up on, but you can have a friend look for you or something like that. You have to be sneaky sometimes to find out if a guy likes you. I know this is true because a guy who really liked me would flirt with other girls in front of me all the time, and then he asked me out. He told me that he did that to make me jealous. So guys have all these little tricks, because if they really do like you, they probably want to know if you like them too. =]
Notice these tell-tale signs:
If he wants to talk to you all the time,
If he was acting like you're his friend but stopped doing embarrassing things in front of you,
If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
If he treats you differently than others,
If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (when you touch him he might touch you back)
If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
If he tries to make you laugh,
If he tries to copy you,
If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?
If he goes out of his way to talk to you (if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you
If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around,
If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you,
If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time!
If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps/touches you, if he moves your chair or pulls your hair etc.
If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend does, he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!
Watch his body language! Whenever you are in a group of people with the one guy you think likes you, look at his shoulders - believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately turn to you to listen.
Watch his actions! If someone else is picking on you does he rush to defend you or get revenge on that person? Either he thinks of you as a great friend or he really likes you!
Where he goes! If you see him go some places that you usually go often and whenever you go there and he passes by or goes there that means he likes you. Or whenever you go you see him or go across him for no reason. And he will talk to you a lot in gym,lunch,music or many more!
Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. If he always wants to talk to you or just likes to hang around you.
If he starts a conversation, try to push it on. If he likes you, one thing may lead to another, and he will ask you out.
Take note, if your guy nods down to you,and or breaks eye contact, he sees you as a friend. If he nods up and keeps eye contact, he's trying to flirt.
If one of his friends keeps telling you stuff he said about you, like how hot you are, he probably likes you.
If he jokes around a lot with you and gives the cheeky little smirk.
Notice if he compliments you on a lot of things.
If he was always talking, teasing or even getting you mad, but, now he's not. He's probably shy, especially if you notice that he likes you.
If when your talking to someone and he jumps into the conversation and tries making fun of you or tries to make you laugh or smile.
When your in class or in an open area with alot of space, and he always finds some way of standing near you. And when he does it's very close, or it feels like it's in your personal space. Then he likes you.
If you're in class and the guy sits side ways in his desk, his knees pointing towards you, then he likes you. If he looks at you alot, or stares blankly at you, he likes you!
WHEW! HAHAHA!