Post by Snow Goddess on Jun 24, 2009 12:09:24 GMT -5
The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all...
Yes, the soundtrack from Notting Hill says it all. Love seldom needs words to express it self. Although most of the girls ‘just know’ when the cupid strikes, and understand when the guy is interested, there are others who have no clue about what’s going on. For all such women out there, here are some interesting ways to find out if a guy likes you. Of course we’ve all heard about the sparkle in the eye and the magical smile and the rest of the clichés that claim to be guaranteed ways to find out if a guy likes you. Since I do not believe in all of the clichéd ideas, but I also believe in everyone having their own point of view, here are the clichés, and my own version of signs that would help you to tell if a guy likes you. Here it goes…
The Clichés: How to Tell if a Guy Likes You
Body Language
If you closely observe his body language, there are certain surefire signs that prove his interest in you. These signs include the following:
* He touches your arm, or even puts his arm around you
* He leans towards you while you guys are having a conversation
* Even when you are in a group, he will be facing you
* He always wants to hug you
* He always smiles at you
* He treats you differently than other girls
Eye-contact
It is said, that a woman can always read a man’s heart through his eyes. No guy can ever disguise his feelings if you look him straight in the eyes. If a guy likes you he will always try and make an eye contact with you. Also, he might stare at you, without being aware of the fact that others might be watching him. If he is rather shy, he will try and look away if you catch him staring at you. Watch out if you see a mischievous glint or an affectionate sparkle in his eyes when he looks at you. As for the more mischievous and bold guys, a playful wink might also do the trick.
Etiquettes
Yes, it is said that if a guy likes you he will try and impress you and will be at his very best behavior when you are around. He will open the door for you, hold out your chair if you go out for a meal, will look out for you while walking, will hold your hand while crossing the road and so on.
Attention to detail
The guy will go out of his way to entertain you, make you laugh in case you are in a group. He will always be listening very carefully when you are talking. He will try and grab you attention by cracking a joke, passing a comment. He will always ask for your opinion in every little thing.
Mind Games
He might try and flirt with you friend just to see whether you get jealous. On the contrary, if he seems really jealous or angry if you display flirtatious behavior with any of his friends, or any other male-friends of yours it is a sure thing that he likes you.
My Point of View: How to Tell if a Guy Likes You
Although some of the clichéd points might hold true, I feel some of them merely tell you if a guy is attracted to you or even infatuated. If a guy genuinely likes you, you just know he does, he wont put up an act to impress you. Here are some of the signs that I feel are surefire ways to tell if a guy likes you:
* He is himself when you are around, which means he is really comfortable with you.
* He truly appreciates you positive points and most subtly brings the negative points to your notice and most importantly he does not shower you with false praises, but instead shares honest opinions.
* He celebrates his achievements with you and comes to you for encouragement when he feels dejected
* He supports you and encourages you in every important task you undertake.
* He shares his deepest desires and darkest fears with you.
* Last and the most important sign, when he talks about his future, he mentions you in it…
Love is not about mind games, and fooling around - it is about being genuinely interested in each other. So make sure you find the right guy, who has his heart in the right place, and loves you truly, madly and deeply!
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all...
Yes, the soundtrack from Notting Hill says it all. Love seldom needs words to express it self. Although most of the girls ‘just know’ when the cupid strikes, and understand when the guy is interested, there are others who have no clue about what’s going on. For all such women out there, here are some interesting ways to find out if a guy likes you. Of course we’ve all heard about the sparkle in the eye and the magical smile and the rest of the clichés that claim to be guaranteed ways to find out if a guy likes you. Since I do not believe in all of the clichéd ideas, but I also believe in everyone having their own point of view, here are the clichés, and my own version of signs that would help you to tell if a guy likes you. Here it goes…
The Clichés: How to Tell if a Guy Likes You
Body Language
If you closely observe his body language, there are certain surefire signs that prove his interest in you. These signs include the following:
* He touches your arm, or even puts his arm around you
* He leans towards you while you guys are having a conversation
* Even when you are in a group, he will be facing you
* He always wants to hug you
* He always smiles at you
* He treats you differently than other girls
Eye-contact
It is said, that a woman can always read a man’s heart through his eyes. No guy can ever disguise his feelings if you look him straight in the eyes. If a guy likes you he will always try and make an eye contact with you. Also, he might stare at you, without being aware of the fact that others might be watching him. If he is rather shy, he will try and look away if you catch him staring at you. Watch out if you see a mischievous glint or an affectionate sparkle in his eyes when he looks at you. As for the more mischievous and bold guys, a playful wink might also do the trick.
Etiquettes
Yes, it is said that if a guy likes you he will try and impress you and will be at his very best behavior when you are around. He will open the door for you, hold out your chair if you go out for a meal, will look out for you while walking, will hold your hand while crossing the road and so on.
Attention to detail
The guy will go out of his way to entertain you, make you laugh in case you are in a group. He will always be listening very carefully when you are talking. He will try and grab you attention by cracking a joke, passing a comment. He will always ask for your opinion in every little thing.
Mind Games
He might try and flirt with you friend just to see whether you get jealous. On the contrary, if he seems really jealous or angry if you display flirtatious behavior with any of his friends, or any other male-friends of yours it is a sure thing that he likes you.
My Point of View: How to Tell if a Guy Likes You
Although some of the clichéd points might hold true, I feel some of them merely tell you if a guy is attracted to you or even infatuated. If a guy genuinely likes you, you just know he does, he wont put up an act to impress you. Here are some of the signs that I feel are surefire ways to tell if a guy likes you:
* He is himself when you are around, which means he is really comfortable with you.
* He truly appreciates you positive points and most subtly brings the negative points to your notice and most importantly he does not shower you with false praises, but instead shares honest opinions.
* He celebrates his achievements with you and comes to you for encouragement when he feels dejected
* He supports you and encourages you in every important task you undertake.
* He shares his deepest desires and darkest fears with you.
* Last and the most important sign, when he talks about his future, he mentions you in it…
Love is not about mind games, and fooling around - it is about being genuinely interested in each other. So make sure you find the right guy, who has his heart in the right place, and loves you truly, madly and deeply!