How to Know if A guy Likes you

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How to Know if A guy Likes you!!!

If he looks directly at you when he asks you a question, this normally means that he likes you, and is trying to tell you something with his eyes. He may also talk softer to you than to others, to give a feeling of sensitivity.
But watch out with what you say back to him at times. If he says something perverted ; and you answer back with a yes ; but you''re kidding, he may not know that, so make sure you''re clear when you say important things like that! You don''t want him to think your head over heels in love with him.
if he looks at you when you say something even not to him, he may like you.
try to think beyond what your logic tells you. If you think he is looking at you or if you think he''s being too nice he may like you. Remember boys don''t flirt for no reason unless he is an outgoing guy.
If the guy puts his hands out at your waist level, when you get ready to walk up to him, it means he''s gonna hug you. DONT be afraid and hug back. Wrap both of your arms around his neck (not too tight) and be soft and kind in your hug. He''ll know then, that maybe he needs someone like you to make his day better.
If you are comfortable around him and he is with you, it could mean that he likes you... or it could mean that he is so comfortable with you that you''re like any other person to him.
If he is nervous around you it could mean either that he likes you OR that he doesn''t like being around you.
Don''t find any excuse to be next to him, he might find that annoying and suffocating.
Try not to get annoying, you can be loud and flirty, but if your are the point where your talking so loud that hes giving your friends wierd looks, your probably just chasing him away.
if he looks at you then he looks away quickly then smiles or gets red face then it defenetly means he is trying to make an interest.
Strike up a conversation with him. Boys like girls they can talk easily to so try to sound interesting and don''t forget to make eye contact!

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How to know when a guy likes you

Here are some things to look for to know when a guy likes you:

1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.

2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.

3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.

4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.

5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.

6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.

7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.

8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?'

Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.

Here are more explanations from WikiAnswers Contributors:

* The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.

* One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.

* He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.

* Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.

* You will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt.

* I'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and actually make less eye contact

* I'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many guys have the same problem.

* I'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you.

* Here are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.

* I think you can tell if a guy likes you if he always looks at you, he always wants to see you smile, he doen't like it when other guys talk to you, he looks at you when you are doing something, he follows you places, he doesn't know how to act when he is with you.

* A guy is interested in a girl if he says "yes" to things she asks him to do. Time is very valuable to a guy, and if he is obliging and generous with his time, a girl certainly has his attention. Especially if he's a busy guy, he'll make time for a girl if he likes you.

* He will make you feel special. He will be romantic. He will not move too fast. He will consider your feelings and take things slow.

* He will show off, sometimes on small things. (For example, my crush at the moment was drinking infront of me, but then stopped when I said it was uncool.)

* I knew a guy who would try to embarass his friends when they were around me. He wanted to look funny and seem cooler than his friends.

* Sometimes a guy who likes you can behave in a very confusing way and be hard to understand. It might make you wonder whether they like you or hate you.

* Shy guys like me will most likely tell their friends. Some will be confused if you flirt with them because they have never had this happen before, so they don't know what to do. Most guys don't do things unless they know exactly what they are doing. Girls just confuse us.

* A guy likes you if he: 1. Makes fun of you. 2. Has cute little nicknames for you. 3. Remembers everything you say, in the smallest most insignificant conversations. 4. Finds any excuse to touch you or sit next to you. 5. Talks and looks at you differently than other people. 6. Talks about you with your friends.

* A confident guy is easier to read. He'll make eye contact. Shy guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing! Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have soemthing in common.

* Confident men who aren't afraid to stare at you and ask you out may just want you for the sex.

* Sometimes a guy will pretend to flirt with other girls in your presence, to make you jealous.

* I tend to like shy guys, so it may be hard to read them at first. But, once they open up, they give you their confidence completely. I find that they will: 1. Make eye contact with you, then look away when your eyes meet. 2. Always be willing to help you our or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work). 3. Will always look for you in a crowd, then when he finds you will act like he doesn't see you. 4. Will laugh at all your jokes/will try to make you laugh. 5. Talks to his friends about you. 6. Mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together. 7. Will always find a reason to talk to you or touch you in any way. 8. Pokes fun at you, but in a nice way (unless he is very young and immature). 9. Seems genuinely interested in what you have to say. 10. Remembers little things that you've talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up in conversations to let you kjnow that he remembered. 11. He will always stare at you, and your friends may notice it too. 12. When you are talking with him and your friends, he will only comment on something that you say, or will look at you whenever he speaks. I hope that these help, but remember, you can't always rely on physical things. I think that most of all it is a feeling. If he likes you, your instinct tells you. Go with your gut. Don't let your logic tell you any different.

* I highly recommend the new book: "He's just not that into you." It is so right on about how to tell if a guy likes you! Actually, the first rule of thumb is that a guy will ask you out if he likes you. To get him comfortable enough to do that, all you have to do is smile and seem interested in him as a person (just in case he's the shy type).

* A guy who likes you may tend to notice new things about you, and compliment you.

* The truth is, most girls can tell if a guy likes them. If you get the feeling that he likes you, you're probably right.

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What are signs a guy likes you that you might be missing?



Signs a guy likes you

* I think the most obvious signs a guy likes you is when he says the dumbest things just to keep talking. I say this because a guy I really like does that to me but he doesn't want to admit that he likes me. Because he thinks I will laugh. Also if a guy tries to hold your hand or starts talking dirty as a joke its totally obvious.

* one of the most obvious signs that a guy likes you is that he will just always stare at you even if they don't know you, they will just stare at you from a distance hoping that you will notice them

* Most likely a guy will just stare at you a lot of the time and when you look his way he just stops looking at you until you look away. He will always ask only you for stuff they really don't need. Just so that they can get yur attention or he just wants to small talk or even make you laugh!

* I agree!! when a guy likes you, you notice them always staring at you, looking until they notice your looking to so they know that you are intrested at least, I also think when a guy calls you at random times or calls you a few times a day just to say hi, means that he is intrested. it also makes you feel good, I think its the sweetest thing.

* when a guy likes to play around a lot and glance his eye at you a lot even when your looking. he makes up nicknames and picks on you for fun because he nos it will be a funny joke and not serious to make you mad. when your angry he will feel sad for you and tell you he's sorry if he bothered u. they also will take up for u.

* HE WILL RESPECT YOU A WANT TO KEEP IT REAL ABOUT IT ALL. HE'LL ALSO TELL YOU THE TRUTH ABOUT YOURSELF.BUT NEVER SAY IT DIRESPECTFULLY.

* yeah agreeing with the last message.. stop stereotyping guys. lol. not everyone is going to make dirty jokes or try to hold your hand. the biggest thing you should look for is respect, and that he is nice to you. cause really, other than that, what else can you want from a guy at the beginning...?

* I think if a guy likes you he'll be touchy-feely or he'll like keep "accidentally" bumping into you just to touch you.

* I also think a guy will play stupid when he's around you looking like a fool but he just really wants to impress you.

* Guys will also act hard when there around a girl they like or over protective of you.

* you'll know that a guy likes if he starts following you wherever you go and always making eye contact

* he'll find any way possible to glance at you three times a day or stare at you a lot. if you catch him in the act he might prolong the gaze(if he's not shy) and other times he'll turn away until you stop looking at him and if you look at the corner of your eyes you will find him taking another glance at you again.

* He looks at you a lot and then turns away quickly or lookin down is a good sign, he may "accidentally" bump into you. His pupils dialate when he talks to you. When you talk to him he seems to be hanging on to every word...

* you will know that a guy likes you when he loves to play with your hair and really annoys you that much... repeat those words you asked them even their not at all funny!!!

* he'll use the any excuse to touch you.. like if you're wearing a necklace he'll move closer and grab it to "look at the necklace" or he'll play with a tie on your shirt or a ring.. anything to get close to you

* he play fights with you

* when he's talking to you he'll touch your arm or put his hand on your shoulder

* he always makes eye contact with you.. even when you're not talking he'll just look at you and smile.. and he can't stop smiling

* he says stupid things to keep the conversation going

* he'll tease you playfully

* if you're going to the movies he'll choose a scary movie over a comedy or anything else.. scary movies are an excuse to cuddle

* One sure fire that you can tell if a guy likes you or not is. If you are in a bad mood he will try anyhing to make you smile. Also he will try and get close to you even when you are crowds away. Or at least he will try and catch your eye.

* I've found out that if a guy likes you, he'll act nervous around you sometimes or always try to be around you.

* he might act slightly jealous when you're talking to or about another guy...and then he'll want to know ALL about him so he can try and work out if he's got competition. and i agree with the whole teasing and play fighting thing, and if he accidentally hurts your or annoys you he'll be really sorry and use it as and excuse to get a hug, lol. overall, he'll be nice to you and make you feel good

* I think one of the ways that guys do show us they like us is... to be mean to us.. you know like they did in grade school. I have a guy right now that is sooooo arguemenative with me, just for no reason. Just to argue... He comes over to me at work and picks at me, for no reason. He is always looking at me. I will look at him, he will look at me, then smile. He is just one of those guys that is just like a little kid. PICK and be MEAN. Several people have said if they didn't know better they would swear we were married!!! We fight like an old married couple. He says I frusterate him, and vise versa. Its crazy! But I know he likes me. He just can't admit it. Some guys are that way, you know if he likes you if he throws rocks at you... LOL or pulls your hair, LOL anyway. Thats just one way to tell...

* if he says 'hi' to you, multiple times, and its just to get your atention. he enjoys you looking at him.

* Guys will find any excuse to touch you. Like if they point at something in the distance they will grab your arm. They also pretend to fight with you by pushing you or teasing you. If the guy makes you upset, he will comfort you and try to get a hug out of it (again, physical contact). If a guy likes you he will always look you in your eyes and find any reason to talk to you even if the subject is silly.

* i think he likes you if he comes up and talks to you even though he doesn't sit with you alsomt evryday. and when your in a group his attention is almost always on you(example: he says hi 2 you first then 2 evryone else or he doesn't even say ot to them! or he realizes that he's been focusing all his attention on you and then quickly says something to someelse to try and cover it up.)

* Another sign is being mean (yep) this could be comments about your height,age,hair etc. example you could be short so he might make mean comments about it. or playful mean like a water fight or something .

* touching; if he touches you he might try and make up some lame excuse to do so . or he might not he might stand extra close to you and lean on you and kind of bump shoulders with you, of course you don't mind lol when its just the 2 of you you can have a good conversation if you just feel relaxed around him its a good sign and finally looking at you then smiling/turning away quick is a good sign.

* Signs that a guy likes you is that yes, they make a lot of eye contact and usually will not turn their head when you look at them to create that crazy feeling smile between you too. I think a guy trys several different ways to say they like you if they don't know which way to apporach you from. My guy friend and I are always at a loss for words, we know each other well and we have been there and done that several years ago. Take it slow don't rush.. these are the best part of falling in love!! "The Signs" But don't go to slow they may run away casue your not bitting back.

* If a guy really likes you he will gaze at you until you look his way, and then he'll either quickly turn away or smile at you(it depends on whether he's shy or not). Also, he'll always be looking for excuses to get closer to you or be where you are. It'll be pretty obvious. Trust me, you'll know if he likes you.

* NOT EVERY GUY IS THE SAME. EVERYONE HAS DIFF WAYS OF SHOWING HIS FEELINGS. one might fetch things for you, carry things for u, sit with you at lunch, laugh at your jokes. My ADVICE: if you are a girl, you KNOW if a guy lieks you or not. DONT MAKE A PRO-CON LIST out of it.

* I know, this is stereotypical, but DONT EVER ASK A GUY OUT!!!... let him know you like him, but DONT ASK HIM OUT. that gives him waaayyy too much of an EGO BOOST. let him know what you feel,a nd let HIM take it from there.. I know this helps.. AND PLS.. don't change for a guy. worst thing you can DO. same with guys: don't change for sm dumb girl.

* When there is a crowd of his friends or people around you he will wait until everyone leaves or he will hesitate to leave until he gets you on your own so he can talk to you. Also eye contact is a big clue. He'll be really nice to you or compliment you.

* I think you know when a guy likes you when he stares at you from across the lunch room and when you look at him he quickly turns his head . Also when your sitting right beside him in homeroom and he purposely moves his arm so it is right up next to yours and dose'nt move it away .you defenetly know when you drop stuff in the hallway and he always picks it up for you .

* You can never know for sure. Take a chance, ask if they do or ask them out, and if they say "No", what's the worst that coudld happen!?!? (thanks to my friend Ker for that one). If your like me, you'll come up with some story about how you'll be living in a shack with thousands of cats by the age of 21. But in reality, everyone has let downs from time to time. Just think, if he says "Yes", aren't the pros that come along with the little word worth the risk?

* I don't really have anything to add that hasn't already been covered..but if a guy is shy, he will try to be near you, but wait for you to say something before he has the courage to talk. He might seem visibly nervous. With some guys, you can tell. With the other less obvious ones, the biggest sign is usually that they'll do something for you even if you're just joking around about it. But hey- that's just from my own experience.

* I think the most abious thing is that he will look at you alot and he'll try to be around you as much as possible. Just give it time love sweet girl!!=).

* when guys are around you and you dont really know they like you,they will ask for hugs or high fives.they will some times make nasty jokes that invole you in it.. (if you know what i meen)but they are always trying to be funny around you.they always look for you after school or befor of even during.

* Boys are so honest well if ur me but the guy I like is so so so honest.and I really really like him but his way of showing he likes is that if you write a note and ask him do u like me he will write maybe maybe so i ask him again he says yea so i feel cool so really why dont u JUST ASK HIM and he will apreciate ur honesty and if he likes u he likes u but there is a guy just for u!!!

* a guy likes you if he notices alot of things about you like your outfits,hair,jewlrey etc.

* He'll ask for your number.....

* He will stand really close and tall when he is talking to you.......

* If a guy likes you, he will show interests in your interests. He will not compliment you to your face as much as he does to your friends. He will always want you to make the first move - believe me i know this from past experience. I, too would never ask a guy out but i do think that all you lasses have to be abit bold and daring and put yourself out there. Show your true worth...by showing a bit of self confidence ..in turn, he will become confident enough to ask you out.

* The king of all signs is that a guy will worry about you so much when your ill. He will always ask about you and make sure you get well soon.

* I think if you tell a guy you like him and he says he just likes you as a friend then that could mean two things. 1.He could just be shy or surprised and not want to admit it, because he's embarrased or another reason like that. One way to tell is that he stills sometimes hangs around you. He may joke around and say -/+ things about himself. That means he just wants to impress you or get your attention. 2.He could really NOT like you. If you really think this so, you'll most likely know. He won't pay much attention to you. He may say hi a few times, but he may also be friendly but not over friendly.

* All guys are different and you never know what they are thinking. Guys are strange and absurb, but follow your heart and you may find Mr.Right.

* If he likes you, then he gives you special attention, being totally oblivious to everyone else in the room. U feel like the only person in the world that matters. when u talk, he just gazes into ur eyes..takes special interest in you & your little matters, also gives u utmost respect, looks at you after everything he says to see how u react, and when u look at him, he looks away smiling.he'll try to show off his physical strength, by lifting something or someone heavy, and then looks at you to see if he's impressed you. also, he'll try to defend you when someone makes fun of you.

* Listen to ur instinct.. You'll just know if he likes you.

* A guy does NOT like you if he is mean to you. I dont mean like, making jokes about your height or something like that, Im talking MEAN.....he definetly does not like you. Because in my opinion it is rude, disrespectful and definetly immature!!

* ok this coming from a guy, look for these signs. trying to make jokes. protecting you alot. trying to make you happy while your sad. holding on to you not in a sexually way but like raping his arms around you. smiling at you alot. and the last but biggest one is if he really likes you hell give you a lot of respect. but all guys aren't the same keep that in mind.

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How to Know if a Guy Likes You

Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to help you work out if he likes you as much as you like him.

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
* He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, "hey watch this" or something else there's a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is try to put other boys down to make themselves look good.
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
* His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
5. Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
6. Get a friend to tell him that she thinks you like him, and see how he reacts around you. Does he seem happy?
7. Smile - a big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back to avoid blushing.
8. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't? If so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with "haha, nice, so-and-so" it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with "haha, nice." The second doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
11. Notice his behaviour in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
* If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
* If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you differently to other girls,
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
* If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (ex. when you touch him he might touch you back showing affection and compassion),
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
* If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
* If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
* If he goes out of his way to talk to you (ex. if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
* If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
* If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around
* If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.
* If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
* If he starts flirting with your friends to make you jealous.
* If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (ex. a cellphone)...he probably likes you...he's trying to impress you,
* If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
13. Watch his body language! Girls, whenever you are in a group of people, with the one guy you think likes you, look at his shoulders, believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately turn to you to listen.
14. Does he notice that you smile around him? Start smiling everytime you interact with him, see if he notices, if he teases you about it, its a pretty good bet you got him.
15. He DEFINITELY likes you if he always wants to hug you and is always putting his arm around you.


TIPS
* Ask what type of girls does he like. If he describes you in a way, he likes you.
* Be nice! If you are mean to him or joke on him to be funny and stuff like that he gets annoyed. Boys like it when their ego is boosted, NOT lowered.
* If you flirt with another guy when he can see you, look at him to see his emotions. You can tell a lot from a guy if you try that and make sure he can see you. You do not want to flirt with one of his friends. It will cause problems and might even ruin your chances of even getting with the guy!
* If he tries to talk to you, let him.
* Always let him be open to you.
* If he looks at you and you catch him looking at you, hold eye contact with him for a couple of seconds and then look away.
* Dances are a great place to test the waters! During a slow dance he might ask you to dance. Pay attention while you're dancing - do you look at each other, then smile and look away? Does he seem happy to be dancing with you? This is a very good sign! If you ask him to dance and he says yeah it is a good sign, but be aware that some guys just say yes to any girl because they don't want her to be offended.
* Don't be too easy or too hard.
* Remember to always be yourself around the boy you like. Boys like it when a girl is not fake around them.
* if you're doing something and you see him staring at you, smile back and try to see how long he stays smiling and blushing
* Make eye contact!!
* IF YOU CAN! Blush when he is around once in a while, see if he notices, or blushes back. If he blushes the first time, he may like you, or may not. If he blushes a second time, he ABSOLUTELY likes you!
* Try not to be aggravating!
* Beware of friendly, outgoing, flirty guys. You might think he likes you, but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.
* Jealousy is not pretty. Avoid it.
* If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way". (Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character).
* Sometimes, a guy will confuse you. He'll flirt with you all year, constantly, every day, smiling, flashing you the peace sign, talking to you, everything - and when you ask him out he'll say no, but when school starts again he'll flirt three times as much, and if you ask him out, he may say no again. Boys can be impossible to figure out until it's too late.
* If a guy genuinely likes you, he will show it somehow; don't go overboard trying to get him to like you.
* Beware - sometimes you might just see what you want to see. You might think he likes you, but maybe he doesn't. Even if he pokes you, teases you, and stares at you, there's a chance that it's all just you. Try not to be paranoid and bug all your friends or be too overconfident and poke him back. Things like that can be annoying.
* Some guys may act a little like they like you, too, but sometimes they don't. He may just act (if he knows that you like him) so he doesn't hurt your feelings. If you feel like your situation is like this, just stop. Understand that he doesn't find you interesting. There will be more guys!
* Watch out for the subtle guys. If he asks you something that could potentially be a date but you're not really sure, make sure it's clear before you agree to it. It can be uncomfortable when one of you thinks you're on a date and one of you thinks you're not.
* One thing that you definitely need to look out for: if he's just trying to get to know you better, or if he's just using you, it might seem like he likes you, but sometimes he could be messing around and telling all of his friends that he's just trying not to BE with you but to GET with you.
* It is a sign when he has a friend talk to you all the time or if he get nervous when he talks to you for the first time. You know what that means. He may try to act cool and over do it, so try to accept everything he says, and if you don't understand part of it, just ask him to explain in more detail while still appearing interested.
* Don't try to convince yourself that he doesn't like you, either. He could have some really deep feelings for you, and if you try to convince yourself that he doesn't like you, you could just end up hurting both yourself and him, and then you'll regret not knowing what could have been...
* The wrong kind of boy might say he likes you without meaning it; if this is the case, he probably wants to see how far you would go with him, for any of those activities (whatever they may be) themselves and for bragging rights among his friends.
* Remember if he is hot then don't get mad if he dances with other girls.
* He might be really awkward when he's around you(even, and mostly during a slow dance) and just take it in. He might not know how to react around you, especially if he doesn't know you like him.
* Don't try to make him jealous because you might lose someone you'll end up regretting.
* Relax! Let him come to you. If he's shy, YOU make the first move! If he responds to it and makes a move on you he DEFINITELY likes you!
* Remember he's still your friend, treat him that way till you're used to the romance idea!
* HAVE FUN!!!!
* Don't get JEALOUS! jealousy is a big turn-off

[Blissful_Eternity]

First off, regardless of what your heart tells you or how your mind forces you to think, DO NOT obsess with a guy you can never have. There are so many more fish in the sea, so many more guys you can love who actually deserve your love. Do not ever hurt yourself for some guy who will never learn to appreciate you. The signs are the following:

If you are his candidate for a Booty Call and then he doesn't know you during the day.

If he uses you.

If he abuses you.

If he hurts you. For instance, he calls you Fat. He doesn't tease you playfully, he downright treats you like garbage.

If he talks behind your back about you. If he starts rumours about you...

Understand this, guys can really be evil sometimes. Move on if you answered yes to any of the above.

Now that we've got that out of the way, here comes the juicy part. How can you tell if a guy likes you? You like him. You feel it in the gut he likes you back. But you need some substantial proof. I will not go into the types of guys out there, because in the end, there will always be a group of guys who have no niche to fall into. These tips are not foolproof, since human nature is always fickle. So, I suggest you read this and use it as a reference and not your bible.

Strategy ONE

Ask him. He says he likes you. Case closed. You are done. But, fearing rejection, can you even do that? If only things were so simple. I'll tell you this. Just ask him. This will save you a lot of time. If he says no, then you can understand that he doesn't and may not even after knowing you for a bit of time. Therefore, it will be him who regrets later on when he falls for you in return, granted you guys will hang out and stuff... Maybe not, since if he does reject you, it will be too embarassing... So what you can do is this....

"Do you like me?"

"No."

"I knew it! I don't like you either." Haha!

"Do you like me?"

"Yes, as a friend."

"Me too. I was worried because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." Saved!

If he says he likes you in a way that he likes you likes you and not as friend, then you've just scored yourself your dream guy.

Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.

He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)

He does things to deliberately gain your attention.

He stutters when he speaks to you.

His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.

He waits for you. He looks out for you.

He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.

He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.

He listens to you and actually remembers little details.

He notices slight changes in your appearance.

He seems sad when you ignore him.

He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.

His friends all know you when you don't know them.

He smiles back when you smile at him.

He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!

He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.

Signs that he is a player

He is a smooth talker. He is very comfortable around you.

He places his hands on you with ease.

Every other girl likes him.

Just be careful.

There are many more signs, but anyway, just go with your heart, take care of yourself, and let things happen naturally. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

[Blissful_Eternity]

How To Know If He Likes You

You could have sworn you noticed a twinkle in his eye when he looked your way. The moment your eyes connected; you felt your heart skip a beat. His smile made your stomach do multiple flips. Yet if you are anything like my best friend, the guy could be wearing a blinking neon sign that he is available and you could still miss it. Some signs of attraction, only your heart can decipher. For the most part, your brain can put serious doubts in your mind about whether or not to ask the guy out. At times, the game of rejection is very hard to play. Heck, its hard to even find the guts to make the first move. The stakes can be incredibly high when you focus all your passionate energies on your crush and you place your heart on the line. Is this why so many of us prefer to stay in relationships that we have outgrown? I think it is easier to stay with what you have grown used to in comparison to the unknown. Just think how comfy your pair of old worn in slippers compared to those patent high heels. You get my point then. Then again, what if that guy your heart has placed a bid on is exactly what destiny has lined up for you? You will never know if you don't try.

The first step is to monitor what you are feeling when you get a chance to converse with him or when you lock eyes. Those long eye gazes hold a lot of information if you know what you are looking for. Its not a feeling that can be written about. Its more of a feeling that you get that you can't quite explain and get easily flustered if you try. All it usually takes to figure out if he likes you, is to pay close attention to what you are feeling inside. Are you nervous, nauseas, uncertain of how to act around him? Well, there is a good chance that he is feeling the same way around you too. Love and even lust, does a funny thing to humans. We suddenly lose our brilliant, confident selves and easily become shy, dizzy, and clumsy. Basically, we show our crush the side we are so desperately trying to hide.

Yet, that is the best part of having a crush to begin with. Its in finding pleasure along the whole journey to a relationship. Enjoy everything you are feeling at this very moment. The uncertainty, the anxiety, and the feeling that you can't live life without him. Appreciate the fact that destiny placed another human being in your path so that you could get to know. Maybe if its in your cards, perhaps the right person for you to form a loving relationship with. Although, you will never know if you don't try. Just remember, if you savor every moment of this game, the sweeter the ending will be...

[Blissful_Eternity]

How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

[Blissful_Eternity]

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You - Are You Sure He Likes You?

When somebody tells you that women are the most fickle-minded creatures and that they are very hard to understand, they probably haven't met a guy yet. Behind that masculine looks and charming smile, nobody knows what they are thinking about except another man, of course. That is why most women are also having a hard time figuring out whether their cute seatmate or hunk office mate likes them or just flirting around. Stop assuming and know the ways how to tell if a guy likes you or not with these simple steps.

If you caught him staring at you, it is most likely that he has been staring at you all along, too. And once your eyes met, he would probably blush or any sign that he is intimidated. Some men even sweat or stutter every time they talk to the woman that they like.

He teases you or does anything that would catch your attention. Probably goofing around is one of the best things that would do just to let you know that he exists. Be careful though. Some men would really want everybody's attention for himself, so better do a background check first before assuming that he likes you.

He asks you out for a date or a group date with your friends. He wants to know more about you and get acquainted with you outside the school or office. It usually starts with a coffee or a lunch date before he asks you out for a dinner date for two.

He brags about his accomplishments. Most guys are not actually smooth-talkers. If a guy likes a woman so much, words usually come out wrong. Instead of giving a good impression by bragging about his car, his new condominium, or even about his past relationships, it turns into other way around. But there are also guys who are just plain showoff, so again, do ask your officemates or colleagues if he is the same with other women as well.

He does any favor you ask him to even if it is not part of his job.

He listens to you and even laughs at your corniest jokes.

In case your woman's instincts are starting to work or you are already noticing signs that he likes you, why not directly ask and confront him? However, this only works for women who have the guts and those who do not mind rejection. But in asking the question whether he likes you or not, you have to make a safe statement. You can either accept his answer and treat everything as a joke or ask first if he likes you as a friend, although you probably wish that he feels more than that.

[Blissful_Eternity]

How to tell if a guy is interested in you

Up to 50 to 90% of communication is non-verbal. If you know what to look for, you can tell how a person views you before they even speak. Words are important but you may find the position of the body and the mannerisms a person uses usually speak louder words.

Easy ways to tell if a guy is interested in you:

* He flirts with you.
* He smiles at you a lot.
* He always teases you or makes fun/jokes.
* He will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious.
* He sends you flowers.
* During a conversation, he mirrors your actions and your voice fluctuations. This action is referred to as "mirroring" and is a very positive sign that he is interested.
* He compliments you a lot.
* He develops a special nickname for you.
* He is very willing to help you out or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work).
* He laughs at all your jokes/will try to make you laugh.
* He mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together.
* He remembers little things that you've talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up in conversations to let you know that he remembered.
* His pupils dilate when he looks at you. Our pupils will dilate when we are looking at anything we like whether if be an object or person.
* He listens to you and remembers little details.
* His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
* If he is shy, he may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
* If he is shy, he might turn red when you talk to him.
* A man who is trying to impress you will square his shoulders. If the man is sitting with his shoulders squarely directed at you this is often an unconscious invitation to continue the conversation or that he is interested in getting to know you better. A man who is not interested may move his body away from you in an effort to get you away from his personal space.
* He notices slight changes in your appearance.
* He asks you out for lunch or dinner.
* He may subconsciously adjust his tie suck in his stomach or touch his hair.

[Blissful_Eternity]

The Clichés: How to tell if a Guy likes you

Body Language
If you closely observe his body language, there are certain surefire signs that prove his interest in you. These signs include the following:

* He touches your arm, or even puts his arm around you
* He leans towards you while you guys are having a conversation
* Even when you are in a group, he will be facing you
* He always wants to hug you
* He always smiles at you
* He treats you differently than other girls

Eye-contact
It is said, that a woman can always read a man’s heart through his eyes. No guy can ever disguise his feelings if you look him straight in the eyes. If a guy likes you he will always try and make an eye contact with you. Also, he might stare at you, without being aware of the fact that others might be watching him. If he is rather shy, he will try and look away if you catch him staring at you. Watch out if you see a mischievous glint or an affectionate sparkle in his eyes when he looks at you. As for the more mischievous and bold guys, a playful wink might also do the trick.

Etiquettes
Yes, it is said that if a guy likes you he will try and impress you and will be at his very best behavior when you are around. He will open the door for you, hold out your chair if you go out for a meal, will look out for you while walking, will hold your hand while crossing the road and so on.

Attention to detail
The guy will go out of his way to entertain you, make you laugh in case you are in a group. He will always be listening very carefully when you are talking. He will try and grab you attention by cracking a joke, passing a comment. He will always ask for your opinion in every little thing.

Mind Games
He might try and flirt with you friend just to see whether you get jealous. On the contrary, if he seems really jealous or angry if you display flirtatious behavior with any of his friends, or any other male-friends of yours it is a sure thing that he likes you.

My Point of View: How to Know if a Guy Likes You

Although some of the clichéd points might hold true, I feel some of them merely tell you if a guy is attracted to you or even infatuated. If a guy genuinely likes you, you just know he does, he wont put up an act to impress you. Here are some of the signs that I feel are surefire ways to tell if a guy likes you:

* He is himself when you are around, which means he is really comfortable with you.
* He truly appreciates you positive points and most subtly brings the negative points to your notice and most importantly he does not shower you with false praises, but instead shares honest opinions.
* He celebrates his achievements with you and comes to you for encouragement when he feels dejected
* He supports you and encourages you in every important task you undertake.
* He shares his deepest desires and darkest fears with you.
* Last and the most important sign, when he talks about his future, he mentions you in it…

Love is not about mind games, and flirting its about being genuinely interested in each other. So make sure you find the right guy, who has his heart at the right place, and loves you from the bottom of his heart!

[Blissful_Eternity]

Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile. he’s checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!

[Blissful_Eternity]

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
* He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
* His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls - the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
* If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
* If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you differently to other girls,
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
* If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
* If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
* If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
* If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
* If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
* If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
* If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.

[Blissful_Eternity]

How to Know if a Guy Likes You



1. Notice how many times he looks at you. Do you catch his eye every time you glance at him? If he flashes his pearly whites every time you look at him, there’s definitely some interest there. A quick turn of his head when you’ve caught him looking is also a good sign.



2. Check with your friends. Guys often take a greater interest in a girl’s friends as a way to get closer to her. Find out if he’s asking about you.



3. Don’t be offended if he’s teasing you. That is often how they express their love interest. Some guys will make fun of their own friends in front of you to appear funny.



4. Take a step into the guy’s personal space. If he likes you, he will welcome this closeness. If he backs away, this is a sign that he’s not interested.



5. Ask him out on a date. If he accepts, you’ll know he’s interested.



6. Think back on conversations you’ve had with him. Does he remember little things you said?



7. Ask him. If all else fails, let him know your feelings. After you’ve shared yours, ask him about his.

[Blissful_Eternity]

How to tell if he likes you

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

[Blissful_Eternity]

“Does he like me?” is an age old question. If you weren’t so busy being insecure you would know the answer in seconds. You can tell if a guy likes your girlfriends can’t you?

Take a step back and notice the signs.

Does he actually look into your eyes? Is he interested in what you have to say? Does he rearrange his schedule to make sure that he can see you? Hmm all good signs.

Does he put up with romantic comedies, your interest in clothes, your friends? Has he actually introduced you to his friends?

Does he act like you are the only woman in the room?

Is he unable to keep himself from touching you? Hand on the arm or the small of your back?

Can you talk for hours? Does he stay on the phone for longer than ten minutes?

Has he casually brought up a movie that just happens to be playing?

These are just a few signs when a man likes you.

Now just because a man likes you doesn’t mean that you have to date him. Don’t make the mistake of dating a man just because he is there. Not every guy is right for you, even if all of your friends think he is “so cute” or you haven’t had a date since Ben and Jerry’s was invented.

Learn how to tell if a man likes you, yes, but use your gut instincts to tell if you should go out with him.