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Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man
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Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man

If you are a man and you're over 35 years old, if you are attracted by younger women but you are afraid of being rejected or not to be taken seriously, you will find out the real thing about this issue in this article.

Let's state an irrefutable fact: most women over 25 and single are already disappointed by men of their age.

And their big problem is to find a mature man that can satisfy their needs.

Here is another fact: in most cases men reach their maturity level after the age of 30.

These women believe that older men won't break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.

Age indicates maturity, and decision making ability.

Many people believe couples with the same age don't respect each other.

Younger women, on the other hand, enjoy having someone take care of them and are attracted to an older person's accomplishments, economic stability and EMOTIONAL MATURITY.

Make sure you share similar life views and goals, despite your age difference.

Do you both appreciate each other's friends? Do you share the same principles when it comes to family?

So, an age difference of 7 - 15 years can lead to a really great relationship if both partners are willing to. That's because we don't choose who we fall in love with, it simply happens.

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Re: Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man
« Reply #1 on Oct 28, 2009, 11:39pm »		[Quote]
woman fall in love with older man because older man are more serious about relationships because of a lot of experiences.
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Re: Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man
« Reply #2 on Nov 15, 2009, 11:35am »		[Quote]
Yes; I think maturity plays a primary role in this particular subset of May-December romance. I'm fond of using that term, and so I will use it now.
Though, I must say, with SHINee's debut single 'Noona Is So Pretty,' I would say that the noona-dongsaeng romance is getting just as popular as... say, oppa-dongsaeng romance.

There's also the reassuring feeling of being protected that girls universally bask in. The feeling of being pampered, taken care of. That's the main reason why girls love chick flicks, chicklit, Korean dramas, and the like - the male leads complement the men they paint on their mental canvas. (It's also a reason why girls' standards so so effing high... *ahem* another tangent I'll get into later)

I remember watching Dreams Link (Yi Lian You Meng) last December. Perfect male lead - and by male lead, I mean the guy she ended up with - not the guy she was initially in love with. The whole thing was just distorted to begin with until details unraveled and it turned out her sister's relationship with her brother-in-law was ... arranged, and molded with the circumstances. I found it a little disturbing, really - I wasn't too surprised when Lu Ping(the older sister) went insane (excellent performance by Qin Lan, btw). When Zi Ling(main female character) fell out of the ring of madness, she began her relationship with an older suitor (while she was in her early twenties he was already in his forties). Utter bliss. He loved her more than she loved him, it seemed.
That's also the thing with older men - they'll have more patience with the young blossomers.


I myself prefer older men - but not so much that it's of the retired taboo May-December category. I wouldn't want to feel like I'm being babysat - I'd want someone who can be lighthearted around me and yet be mature when he needs to be, someone who will take the time to understand me and my ways instead of scold/correct/criticize me. That would only send me running (duh) - whether it's a friend, or a lover.
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